1. Forget about trying to do so much. A quick route to holiday angst is overburdening yourself with too much to do. Don’t take on too many tasks, accept too many invites, consider obligations very carefully. Plan on taking it easy. Say “no” to anything non-vital, delegate tasks whenever possible, and manage YOUR time so as not to avoid creating undue stress. Choosing to do less will leave you with more time, energy and desire to enjoy the most important part of the season – yourself, family and friends.
Tell me about your most chaotic holiday experience below..
2. Balance your suppositions with reality. You almost assuredly won’t get everything you want, someone in your family will inevitably piss you off, best laid plans will change, and you may not feel like Christmas caroling this year. However, it’s important to bear in mind that everything is seldom perfect or within your control, and more importantly- it doesn’t have to be. Be able to let go of that which is beyond your control. Try not to be get stuck on negative expectations, you will only bring them into being. Do you have a family member you tend to clash with? Whats a different way of dealing with them last year?
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3. Plan ahead. Have a predetermined plan for how to address the remainder of your holiday season prep following Thanksgiving. Don’t wing it. Start planning as soon as reasonable. Holiday planning is a leading cause of Holiday Stress Syndrome. Know when you’re going to begin shopping (that may mean considering the dates of your pay days, in order to create a reasonable, executable budget), and stick to your plan.
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4. Plan to not overspend. Create a reasonable list and budget and DO NOT DEVIATE. Remember, your presence is more valuable than presents. Marginal people on your Christmas list? Cut them ahead of time, don’t agonize over it later. People aren’t as touchy as we think.
5. Diminished exposure to sunlight (due the time change) and bad weather can trigger depression. Use of full-spectrum lighting- specifically, light bulbs containing the full spectrum of color (including ultra-violet and infrared in your home can lessen SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder).
6. Moderate holiday foods, and exercise. It’s normal to eat more during the holidays, but that doesn’t mean we have to overeat. Be aware of how certain foods affect your mood. Fats and sweets will deplete your energy, which can make you feel more stressed and run down. Consider taking a walk before and/or after a big holiday meal. Walking half an hour or so before a meal can lower sugars and fats that settle in the blood after eating. A light walk half an hour or so after a meal if you want to speed up your metabolism to burn those calories.
7. Schedule a time to reflect on those you may be separated from or have lost. Plan time to honor memories of people you’ve lost, and also to connect with those you are only separated from. Make plans to celebrate again when you can all be together.
8. Allow yourself time to decompress from the holidays.. For some, the end of the holidays is a relief. However, for many others it is a big let down. Avoid Post Holiday Syndrome by easing out of all the festivities by planning a day or two of rest toward the end of the season.
If you had the time to watch an entire season of any TV series this holiday season, what would it be?